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RECORDSADVICE DAILY JOURNAL FRIDAY, APRIL 22, 2016 I A3 Freddie Ray Sutton SWEENY, Texas -Freddie Ray Sutton, 71 of Sweeny, Texas, passed away in his home DEAR ABBY: My hus band, "Ed," and I are in our 40s. We both work, and Ed often puts in more than 60 hours a week. My in-laws, in their 60s, are both in good health, retired and well-off financially. They expect weekly gatherings 'K unless THEY of those mandatory family visits, you and your husband should tell his parents what you have told me. Unless you explain to them that they have you on a schedule that doesn't permit you to spend alone time with your children or each other they won't get it.

Family get-togethers are supposed to be pleasant for all, not mandatory. And if your in-laws can afford the expense, they should hire a handyman to help them and not impose upon their son. performing weekly chores such as painting, gardening, window washing, etc. These take more than six hours on Sundays, in addition to dinner. My in-laws also insist on yearly family vacations.

Because of this we have little time alone with our teens or each other. I don't think all these gatherings should be mandatory. Please help. This is hurting our marriage. HIGHLY STRESSED IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR HIGHLY STRESSED: During one with Rev.

Clevenger officiating. Burial at St. Francois Memorial Cemetery. Tammy Snyder FARMINGTON Miss Tammy Elaine Snyder, 41, passed away April 19, 2016, at Southeast Hospital in Cape Girardeau. Tammy was born January 9, 1975, in Farmington, and was the daughter of Lorna Helen 'King' Snyder and the late Charlie Snyder.

Also pre-ceding-in-death was a sister, Rhonda Deason (2004). Survivors Include: her mother, Lorna Helen Snyder, of Farmington. A sister, Linda (and Richard) Moser, of Fulton, Missouri. Two brothers, David Snyder, of Doe Run, and Blynn Snyder, of Farmington. Also surviving are Aunts; Uncles; Nieces; Nephews; Great-Nieces and Great-Nephews.

Visitation Thursday, 5-8 p.m. at Taylor Funeral Service, Farmington. Visitation resumes Friday, 6:30 a.m. and funeral Friday, 2:00 p.m., April 22, 2016, at Taylor Funeral Service Chapel, with Rev. Bob Webb officiating.

Interment follows at Hill view Memorial Gardens Cemetery, Farmington. Memorials to: Donor's Choice. Photo obituary and guestbook online at: www.taylorfu-neral.com. Doyle Wade Jones PARK HILLS Doyle Wade Jones of Desloge, Missouri, passed away on April 20, many memories of those that she loved and cared for while placing them in creative scrapbooks. Most of all, Mary loved her family, cherishing each and every memory they made together.

Mary is also survived by one son, George (Connie Meloy) Gordon of New Bloomfield; one daughter, Christina (Chris) Bolton of Holts Summit; one step-daughter, Betty Sue (Greg) Gordon-Cruz of Holts Summit; one sister, Pat Reagan of Farmington, Missouri; one brother, Wes (Mary Ellen) Scaggs of Pa-ducah, Kentucky; and six grandchildren, Jodie Gordon, Zach Bolton, Alex-zandra McCullough, Travis Gordon, Bethany McCullough and Grace Bolton. Family will receive friends from 4-7 p.m. Tuesday, April 19, 2016, at First Church of God in Jefferson City. An additional visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 20, 2016, from a.m. at First Church of God.

Funeral services will follow at 11 a.m. at First Church of God with Rev. Joe Gregory officiating. Interment will be private for the family. Expressions of sympathy may be made to the First Church of God.

Arrangements are under the direction of Hous-er-Millard Funeral Directors, 2613 West Main Street, Jefferson City, MO 65109. (573) 636-3838. Condolences may be left for the family online at www.mil-lardfamilychapels.com. Terry Holmes FARMINGTON Mrs. Teresa "Terry" Holmes, 59, passed away April 20, 2016, at Crystal have other plans.

DEAR ABBY In warmer weather, my mother-in-law guilt-trips Ed into DEAR DOCTOR I've heard that drinking red wine, or any alcoholic beverage, in moderation is "heart -healthy." Is it true, and is red wine any healthier than other alcoholic beverages DEAR READER: There are many stud- DR. KOMAROFF ies of the two ques tions you ask. As for the first question, most studies have found that moderate drinkers are less likely to develop Type 2 diabetes and heart disease. That's when moderate drinkers are compared either to non-drinkers or to heavy drinkers. "Moderate drinkers" refers to men who have an average of one to two alcoholic drinks per day, and women who have an average of one drink per day.

The difference between men and women is because women metabolize alcohol somewhat differently from men. A study published in 2015 from Harvard Medical School and other institutions analyzed results from nearly 15,000 people. The study lasted nearly 25 years. No one had heart failure at the DEAR HARRIETTE: One of my friends is a gorgeous woman. I always appreciate her beauty inside and out but have been having an issue with some of the photos she chooses to decorate her home with.

She has done many nude photo shoots. These photo shoots are HARRIETTE COLE with hired photographers, so they are solely in her possession. However, she hangs nude portraits of herself by her fireplace, in up- beginning of the study. By the end of the study, however, some did. But moderate drinkers were 20 percent less likely than non-drinkers or heavier drinkers to develop heart failure.

This positive effect of moderate drinking was somewhat stronger in men than in women. The study looked primarily at heart failure, and not at other types of heart problems. Now to your second question, about whether red wine is a more heart -healthy type of alcoholic drink than other alcoholic beverages. Here, I'd say the evidence is less clear. A study reported in late 2015 got a lot of attention in the media for showing that red wine is heart -healthy.

In fact, that study did not really compare red wine to all other types of alcoholic beverages. The study involved over 200 adults who were at high risk for heart disease because they had Type 2 diabetes. Participants were assigned at random to drink 5 ounces (two-thirds of a cup) of either red wine, white wine or mineral water each day. The drinks were provided for free, to encourage study participants to drink as they were as -signed by the study to do. After about two years, stairs hallways and even in her bedroom.

I myself don't have a problem with this, but I have two boys and don't want them seeing my friend nude. I try to not take my boys over to her house frequently, and she has recently started questioning where they are. I never want my children thinking that nude bodies are something to be ashamed of; I just do not want them seeing my friend in the nude. How can I tactfully communicate this to my friend? I don't want her thinking I don't support her shoots. Don't Look Too Close, Philadelphia the red wine drinkers had higher HDL cholesterol cholesterol), lower ratios of total cholesterol to HDL cholesterol, and fewer markers of "metabolic syndrome" (a cluster of conditions that increase the risk of heart disease, stroke and diabetes), compared to the mineral water drinkers.

Each of these changes has been linked to lower rates of heart disease. However, the study was too short to determine if heart disease rates were actually lowered. Interestingly, the white wine drinkers had somewhat different beneficial effects. Compared to the mineral water drinkers, the white wine drinkers had lower blood sugar levels, lower levels of triglyceride fats and less insulin resistance. Each of these changes, too, has been linked to lower rates of heart disease.

But again, the study was too short to determine if heart disease rates were actually lowered. To make a long story short, moderate drinkers have heart benefits, compared to non-drinkers or heavier drinkers. Heavier drinking puts the heart (and other organs) at risk. It's not clear that red wine is superior to other alcoholic beverages. DEAR DON'T LOOK TOO CLOSE: Be upfront with your friend.

Tell her that you feel uneasy about having your sons view nude pictures of her. While you certainly think that she is beautiful and that it is her prerogative to display these pictures if she chooses, explain that you are uncomfortable about your sons seeing someone they know in the nude. Navigating sexuality with children can be a challenge and you are doing the best you can. For you, that means limiting their exposure. If she gets upset, so be it.

You have every right to limit what your boys see. High Dressing Low Dressing 76.50-78.00 65.00-70.00 2016, having reached the age of fifty eight years, six months, and fifteen days. He was born on October 5, 1957, a son to Fern (Reed) Jones and the late Jim Jones. Doyle is survived by his mother, Fern Jones of Desloge, Missouri; five brothers, Jimmie Jones of Ellington, Pastor Darrell Jones and wife Patty of Eminence, Earl Jones of Desloge, Pastor Derek Jones and wife Caroline of DeSoto, and Pastor Dwight Jones and wife Tammy of Park Hills; also surviving are many other extended family members and friends. In addition to his father, Doyle is preceded in death by his sister, Darlene Jones; and brother, Darin Jones.

Visitation for Doyle will be held 10:30 a.m. until time of funeral service at 1 p.m. Friday, April 22, 2016, at Harvest Christian Centre in Park Hills, Missouri, Doyle's brothers, Pastor Darrell Jones, Pastor Derek Jones, and Pastor Dwight Jones will officiate. Interment and final prayers will be held at the Lane Cemetery in Park Hills, Missouri. All funeral arrangements have been cared for by the DeClue Funeral Home.

i on April 18, 2016. He was born in Arcadia, Missouri, April 18, 1945. He served in the United States Army Re -serves for 8 years; he was a 32 Degree Mason and a past Worthy Patron of the Order of the Eastern Star chapter 349 in Ironton, Missouri. Freddie was a loving husband, father and was a hard worker; a member and deacon of Marble Creek United Baptist Church for many years and later became a member of the First Baptist Church of Shady Acres in Brazoria. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, gardening, but most of all he loved being a servant for the Lord.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Herman Leon Sutton and Hazel Virginia Sutton; son, Darin Dean Sutton, brother, Edward Leon Sutton and sister, Ramona Evelyn Reese; numerous nieces, nephews and other relatives and friends mourn his passing. Left to cherish his memory are his wife of 51 years, Nelda Ruth Sutton of Sweeny; son, Devin W. Sutton; brothers, Larry Sutton and wife, Cindy of Arcadia, Missouri, and Mark Sutton and wife, Sheree of Arcadia, Missouri; aunt, Mau-drie Reves of Arcadia, Missouri; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Clyde and Debra Lewis of Lake Jackson; Jack Reese of Arcadia, Missouri, Troy Carver and wife, Joyce of Park Hills, Missouri. Visitation will be 10 a.m. -12 p.m., with a funeral service at 2 p.m.

Saturday, April 23, 2016, at Bryson Funeral Home in Pilot Knob, Missouri, with his two brothers, Rev. Larry Sutton and Rev. Mark Sutton officiating. Burial will be at Arcadia Valley Cemetery. Serving as pallbearers will be Devin Sutton, Clyde Lewis, Mark Sutton, Larry Sutton, Edward Sutton and Jacob Sutton.

Honorary pallbearers will be Jack Reese, Brett Duncan and Troy Carver. The family requests that all flowers and potted plants be sent to Bryson Funeral Home, 312 S. Valle St. Pilot Knob, Missouri, 63663(573)546-6103. Services are under the direction of Baker Funeral Home in West Columbia, 634 S.

Columbia Dr. 77486 (979) 345-3232. Online condolences may be left for the family by signing the guestbook at www.bak-erfuneralhome net Peggy Bess DESLOGE Peggy Bess, 83, of Park Hills, passed away April 21, 2016, at Country Meadows in Park Hills. Arrangements are pending at C.Z. Boyer and Son inDesloge.

Mary Josephine Gordon JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. Mary Josephine Gordon, 72, of Holts Summit passed away Saturday, April 16, 2016, in Jefferson City, Missouri. She was born on March 5, 1944, in Farmington, Missouri, the daughter of Fred and Lois (Babb) Scaggs. She was united in marriage on March 7, 1975, in Jefferson City, Missouri, to Robert J. Gordon, who survives of the home.

She was a 1962 graduate of Farmington High School. She was employed with United Telephone for many years as a Telephone Operator. She then worked for the State of Missouri as a switchboard operator until her retirement in 2003. Mary was a devoted wife, loving mother and grandmother. She was a member of First Church of God in Jefferson City.

Mary enjoyed displaying her love of art by quilting many beautiful and timeless quilts during her life. She shared her love of the Lord, while leading a ladies bible study in Holts Summit and participating in many church activities and groups. She captured Oaks Skilled Nursing rontoi- in Festus- Te resa was born November 11, marck, and was the daughter of the late Jack Weiss and Earlean 'Hedrick' Weiss. Teresa earned an Associates Degree in Court Administration Criminal Justice and worked as a Deputy for Ste. Genevieve and Washington Counties.

Survivors Include: her husband, Brad W. Holmes, of Farmington. Three daughters, Schea (Kyle) Winch, of Desloge; Kyla Holmes, of Farmington, and Ashley Holmes of Park Hills. Three sons, Shaun (and Amber) Mackley, of Farmington; Jeremy (and Melissa) Holmes, of Park Hills and Justin (and Cathy) Holmes, of Farmington. One brother, Doug Weiss, of Imperial.

Also surviving are nine grandchildren: Cait-lyn; Abbigail; Maddison; Landon; Kayleigh; Kamryn; Kollin; Ian and Cooper. A gathering of family and friends will be Saturday, 3-5 p.m. at Taylor Funeral Service, Farmington. Memorials to: Lupus Foundation andor American Cancer Society, Breast Cancer. Photo Obituary and Guestbook online at: www.

taylorfuneral.com. Eunice Aldine Russell PARK HILLS Eunice Aldine Russell, 92, of Park Hills, formerly of Leading-ton, passed away April 19, 2016, at Country Meadows Nursing Home. She was born December 21, 1923 at Rivermines. She was a member of Bonne Terre Church of God. She was preceded in death by her first husband, MayfordHoldman; her second husband, Lloyd Russell; brothers, Donald Wright and Tom Wright; granddaughter, Angela Forsythe; and great-grandson, Zach-ary Callaway.

Eunice is survived by her children, Connie and Husband Don Forsythe of Branson, Bill Holdman and wife Faye of Branson, Donna and husband Dick Johnson of Leadington, Valeria and husband Terry Callaway of Leadington; nine grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. Other relatives and friends also survive. Visitation will be 10 a.m. until time of funeral service at 2 p.m. Friday, April 22, 2016, at Horton-Wampler Funeral Home in Park Hills THIS WEEKEND'S ISSUE Farmington Livestock Auction Report for 4212016 Receipts: 1056 Week Ago: 1403 Year Ago: 1067 Compared to last week, steers and heifers sold 9.00-15.00 lower with a wide variety in quality.

Slaughter cows and bulls sold 1.00-2.00 lower; Demand light and supply moderate. Cows made up approximately 15 percent of the run, 85 percent feeders. Steers made up approximately 48 percent of the offering, 42 percent heifers with 10 percent feeder bulls. Offerings over 600 lbs totaled around 22 percent. Feeder Steers: Medium and Large 1 few 250-300 lbs 190.00-200.00; 300400 lbs 179.00-201.00; 400-500 lbs 156.00-182.00; 500-600 lbs 139.00-165.00; 600-700 lbs 135.00-156.00; 700-775 lbs 130.00-144.50.

Medium and Large 1-2 325-400 lbs 154.00-178.00; 425-500 lbs 145.00-157.00; 500-550 lbs 145.00-155.00; few 600-700 lbs 125.00-145.00. Feeder Heifers: Medium and Large 1 300400 lbs 152.50-173.00; 400-500 lbs 145.00-170.00; 500-600 lbs 136.00-156.00; 600-650 lbs 130.00-144.00; few 700-750 lbs 125.00-132.00; pkg 936 lbs 110.00. Medium and Large 1-2 pkg 295 lbs 167.00; few 300-350 lbs 140.00-165.00; 400-500 lbs 122.00-150.00; few 525-600 lbs 115.00-144.00; few 600-700 lbs 115.00-127.00; few 725-750 lbs 110.00-125.00. Medium2 pkg 370 lbs 135.00. Feeder Bulls: Medium and Large 1 400-500 lbs 150.00-179.00; few 550-600 lbs 135.00-155.00; 600-700 lbs 125.00-158.00; few 725-775 lbs 116.00-122.00.

Medium and Large 1-2 pkg 600 lbs 127.00. VOTE COIMT? Slaughter Cows: Pet Lean Breaking 75-80 Boning 80-85 Lean 85-90 Avg. Dressing Scarce: 68.00-74.00 53.00-60.50 Slaughter Bulls: Yield Grade 1-2 few 1325-1930 lbs Bulk 85.50-95.00. High Dressing 99.50-100.00. Stocker Cows: Medium 2 Scarce: Replacement Cows: Medium and Large 1-2 few 5 yrs old to short and solid mouth, 915-1430 lbs, 2nd and 3rd stage, 1120.00-1500.00 per head.

Cowcalf pairs: 6 yrs to short and solid, 960-1 285 lbs with 1 20-220 lbs calves, 1300.00-1800.00 per pair. FOR FULL MARKET REPORT: MO Dept of Ag-USDA Market News Service, Farmington, MO Dennis Nagel, Market Reporter, (573) 751-5618 24 hr State Wide Market Hotline 1-573-522-9244 www.ams.usda.govmnreportsJCLS172.txt In the weekend edition of the Dailylournal AUTO HOME BUSINESS LIFE HEALTH 800-780-8210 www.bessinsurance.com.